PREPARE
Book Hugo’s dentist check-up
Jamie accepted this · Task
FAMILY WEEK AHEAD · MON, 5 OCT
The three things most worth noticing
One calm view across groceries, travel, calendar, tasks and conflicts. It only reads the shared week and changes nothing.
Only the highest-priority item in each category appears here. Open the full week for every date, item and confirmation.
See the full seven-day plan2 visible items
2ready
0need attention
0blocked
0without an owner
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Book Hugo’s dentist check-upJamie · Due Today
Confirm Saturday football liftAlex · Due Tomorrow
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JJamie1 open
The visible load is close enough to discuss, not silently optimise.
No collision needs a decision
Every visible commitment can be held by its current owner.
AAlex not yetJJamie not yet
Confirmation means “I have seen this exact version.” It does not accept unowned work or resolve a conflict.TWO-ACCOUNT RESPONSIBILITY LOOP
A handoff is not complete until someone accepts
1 Alex reads→2 Jamie answers→3 Owner finishes→4 Both see closure
Use the Family Inbox below. Kitchen Table will turn the message into one outcome request rather than scattering reminders across two people.
FAMILY INBOX · VIEWING AS ALEX
Turn one message into a responsibility request
Add the real notice, check every extracted detail against its source, then ask the other adult for a clear yes. Kitchen Table stores the original privately and never invents unreadable text.
EMAIL FORWARDING
Provider setup pendingFamily email address needs a domain
Forward a school email here. It arrives as a reviewable draft—never as an automatic assignment.
REAL FAMILY INPUT
Drop in the notice that created the mental load
Text is imported automatically. Images and PDFs stay private and visible beside the transcription you provide.
OR PRACTISE WITH A FICTIONAL NOTICE
Nothing is added to the family plan yet
SHARED FAMILY LIFE
Plan the life around the calendar
WHAT ARE YOU PLANNING?
Start with one real need. Only the plan you choose opens.
In progress
0No shared plans in progress.
FAMILY RHYTHM
Own the routine. Cover the exception.
A repeating responsibility becomes real only when its owner accepts. Time away changes one occurrence—not the family agreement.
0Alex0JamieNEXT 3 WEEKS
Responsibility agreements0
Add one repeating outcome the family already manages.
Next occurrencesCOVERED
Accepted rhythms will appear here with their owner.
TIME AWAY
Show the gap before it becomes a scramble
Add only your own unavailability. Kitchen Table leaves each affected occurrence uncovered until someone accepts it.
WEEKLY CLOSURE BRIEF
Three questions. Then close the week.
What did we finish?
Nothing recorded as finished this week.
What still has no owner?
Everything open has a clear owner.
What conflicts next week?
No overlapping commitments detected.
FAMILY AUTOPILOT
0 OPENSee only what changed or needs a person
Familiar work can be prepared automatically. Low-confidence matches, new work and availability conflicts always stop here.
Repeated family decisions avoided
Tasks and owners carried forward
Conservative coordination estimate
Completed routines verified by the family
EXCEPTIONS INBOXOnly decisions the routine could not safely make
Shared across Web and Apple✓
No Playbook exceptions need attention
Autopilot has not hidden any unresolved family decision.
AUTOPILOT HISTORYEvery automatic step stays visible and reversible
0 RUNS↻
No Autopilot runs yet
The first prepared routine will leave a complete story here.
FAMILY PLAYBOOKS
0 ACTIVEThe way your family already knows how to do things
Active Playbooks match future notices, reuse confirmed ownership and show only exceptions. Pause one without deleting its history.
Complete one source-backed family plan, then save it as your first Playbook.
FAMILY MEMORY
0 VISIBLEThe details nobody should have to remember alone
Every fact keeps its source and confirmation date. Private cards stay visible only to the adult who added them.
Start with one detail you looked up twice this month.
Meal planning
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Shopping
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Household budget
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Travel
No shared items yet.
ASK KITCHEN TABLE
A calm answer from the shared family record
It can summarise. It cannot assign work, book or spend by itself.
SHARED FAMILY CALENDAR
This week, with ownership
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RESPONSIBILITY CLOSURE
Alex’s accepted work and family visibility
Book Hugo’s dentist check-upDue Today
AcceptedJamieConfirm Saturday football liftDue Tomorrow
AcceptedAlexOrder Mia’s library costumeDue 12 Aug
SuggestedUnassigned